Maybe if you’d start looking outside your general cuisine you might find ladies who are less interested in the absolute present 
I thought Prague would be good, but you’d be surprised how much pianists care about the paycheck. In some cities halls and presenters simply haven’t built up an audience.
I don’t know, what are they interested in? I’m not sure there’s a way around a present-engagement-to-future-building kind of thing. I’ve known women who just want to hang out and don’t put pressure, but I’m not talking about that. Actually this is why I don’t mind if a woman already has children, as a lot of the buildup is out of the way already.